Error while setting up Lilypad

This is the first time im trying this and whenever I start up the minecraft server I get spammed with
Couldn't connect to remote host: "Connection refused: /127.0.0.1:5091", retrying
Can you help me?
*Im a total n00b

Now it stopped saying that but it got worse, the server starts and when it says [LilyPad] fatal error: services it just crashes

[LilyPad] fatal error: services

here is the full log

12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO WARNING: Unexpected exception in the selector loop.
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO Jun 12, 2013 8:18:03 AM io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop run
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$2.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:114)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:329)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.closeAll(NioEventLoop.java:521)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AbstractUnsafe.close(AbstractChannel.java:750)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AbstractUnsafe.invokeLater(AbstractChannel.java:968)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.execute(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:696)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.addTask(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:306)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.reject(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:711)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO java.util.concurrent.RejectedExecutionException: event executor terminated
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO WARNING: Unexpected exception in the selector loop.
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO Jun 12, 2013 8:18:03 AM io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop run
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$2.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:114)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:326)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.runAllTasks(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:364)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.bootstrap.AbstractBootstrap$2.run(AbstractBootstrap.java:335)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel.bind(AbstractChannel.java:251)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline.bind(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:883)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.bind(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1145)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.invokeBind(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1151)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.invokeBind0(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1166)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$HeadHandler.bind(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:1082)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AbstractUnsafe.bind(AbstractChannel.java:701)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.socket.nio.NioServerSocketChannel.doBind(NioServerSocketChannel.java:102)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at sun.nio.ch.ServerSocketAdaptor.bind(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at sun.nio.ch.ServerSocketChannelImpl.bind(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at sun.nio.ch.Net.bind(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at sun.nio.ch.Net.bind(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at sun.nio.ch.Net.bind0(Native Method)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO java.net.BindException: Address already in use
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO [LilyPad] fatal error: services
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$2.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:114)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:326)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.runAllTasks(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:364)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.bootstrap.AbstractBootstrap$2.run(AbstractBootstrap.java:335)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPromise.addListener(DefaultChannelPromise.java:28)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPromise.addListener(DefaultChannelPromise.java:93)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.DefaultPromise.addListener(DefaultPromise.java:102)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.DefaultPromise.notifyListener(DefaultPromise.java:525)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.DefaultPromise.notifyListener0(DefaultPromise.java:548)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.ChannelFutureListener$2.operationComplete(ChannelFutureListener.java:52)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.ChannelFutureListener$2.operationComplete(ChannelFutureListener.java:56)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel.close(AbstractChannel.java:231)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline.close(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:863)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.close(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1121)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.close(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1262)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.invokeClose(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1268)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelHandlerContext.invokeClose0(DefaultChannelHandlerContext.java:1284)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$HeadHandler.close(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:1100)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AbstractUnsafe.close(AbstractChannel.java:758)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AbstractUnsafe.deregister(AbstractChannel.java:790)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AbstractUnsafe.invokeLater(AbstractChannel.java:968)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.execute(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:696)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.addTask(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:306)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.reject(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:711)
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO java.util.concurrent.RejectedExecutionException: event executor terminated
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO WARNING: An exceptionCaught() event was fired, and it reached at the tail of the pipeline. It usually means the last handler in the pipeline did not handle the exception.
12.06 08:18:03 [Server] INFO Jun 12, 2013 8:18:03 AM io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$TailHandler exceptionCaught
12.06 08:18:02 [Server] INFO [LilyPad] build 25 of AllInOne
12.06 08:18:02 [Multicraft] Loaded config for "Default"
12.06 08:18:02 [Multicraft] Starting server!
12.06 08:18:02 [Multicraft] Loading server properties
12.06 08:18:02 [Multicraft] Received start command

Yes I did

Oh I saw this one just now
java.net.BindException: Address already in use
What does this mean?

The question to me is what does it mean to you?
As far as i can tell i means that the iport you filled in are already in use by a other application.
Use a different port instead.

Please use the edit button. Kinda annoying to read so called "Double Posts". But thats my opinion.

My port is 25713 and it still says exactly the same thing

I really need help

There are more ports in the config. 2 to be exact.
So you tried to change the minecraft proxy port.
But Lilypad uses a other port instead. 5091. Have you tried to change that?

I tried that, still unsuccessful and exactly the same error :/