Need help setting up Lilypad on hosted server

Really not getting the tutorial on how to actually set it up, might be looking at wrong page.

Im at the point where I just put in the info for the Lilypad-Connect.jar config. Anyone know what do do next, or the link to the page on what to do next?

(Im basically trying to connect 2 bukkit servers together)

I haven't found a video yet, link?

So I need the AllInOne server/software even if I'm connecting 2 servers together?

I'm in the same boat as Jay - I'm trying to get them to work but I get a nice Java error each time I try... http://pastie.org/8058065

So I'm assuming that's a yes?

I'm not even running any AllInOne software, just 3 Lilypad plugins and I'm already getting errors

This is what I'm getting:

http://pastebin.com/JCkK62rW

Yes I DID try to read the error but I wasn't sure what it meant, that's why I asked you

It should be one of the latest versions... our host hasn't responded yet but I have never had problems with the Java build they run.

java version "1.7.0-ea"
Java(TM) SE Runtime Environment (build 1.7.0-ea-b125)
Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM (build 20.0-b06, mixed mode)
Quoted straight from my hosting service, is that what you needed?

Its hard when you do a bunch of stuff on the terminal/console and we do it all through files

How would you do that on a hosted server